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I sincerely want to help everyone have better interactions this year, so hereโs a tip for having really good conversations.
Does this interaction feel familiar?
Me: Asks a question
You: Formulates an answer
Me: Elaborates on your answer and asks a follow up question.
You: Formulates an answer
Me: Elaborates on your answer and asks a follow up question.
You: Formulates an answer
Me: feels like shit, gets frustrated, and moves on
So instead of forcing someone to interrogate you, use this formula instead.
Me: Asks a question
You: Formulates an answer, elaborates past the original question, and asks a follow up question in return.
Me: Formulates an answer, elaborates past your question, and asks a follow up question in return.
Lather. Rinse. Repeat.
Sometimes conversations just flow, and thatโs great! But if you feel like the conversation is slowing down, try this out! Much love and Happy New Year everyone! ๐
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