Hi, this is not meant to be a horny post but as a 30 year old man, I always thought my attraction to older women would fade with time.

I thought my crushes on more mature teachers and and family friends was just a phase during puberty and school but this has not been the case. Even after college and years in the workforce, I still find myself attracted the older women in my life.

This has led me to be alone for years at a time as I don't often find myself connecting with women my age and having the same attraction.

I don't know exactly why I'm posting this but I guess my question is what hope is there romantically for someone like me. I don't want kids, I enjoy staying in and engaging conversations, creating and most of all exploring a physical connection that we can't help but think about all day. To find all of these things even for a short time in an older woman who feels the same about a younger guy seems like a pipe dream.