I'm a short, 5'6", 49 year old guy with a Bearish Dad Bod and a handsome little 5" Cock living in the Lake Borderline/NW Suburbs area.

I've only ever had monogamous, heterosexual relationships, but I want to explore Casual Sex Relationships and satisfy the curiosities of my sexuality.

I think I'm open to trying many new things, but because I am new to the whole casual sex / kink lifestyle and have basically remained Vanilla in my sexcapades, it is a bit awkward for me.

I need a woman that will understand this and who can show me a new side of myself.

I'm also Demisexual and a bit Sapiosexual, so I don't really know if Sport-Fucking is gonna be my thing, but I am willing to give it a GGG try if someone else is willing to show me! 🙏

To the ladies ~ My strengths are that I am a very selfless, generous, attentive, and Tuned-In Lover. This is what the women who've been with me say, and their feedback is consistent.

(Your pleasure 💦 is my greatest turn-on).

As a musician, I'm good with my hands, and I have received 5-Star 🌟 Feedback on my Oral Skills consistently for 30 years!

{Soaked sheets don't lie! 👌}

I genuinely enjoy giving over receiving and will happily give you hours of multiple orgasms to my one or two, so use me, please!

My favorite thing is going down on you and taking my time to give you pure ecstasy ... to start out like a Butterfly 🦋 landing on a petal, and finish like a Bulldog eating a bowl of oatmeal! Multiple Orgasms Guaranteesmd 👌

On a side note, I have always been incredibly attracted to dark-skinned women of any ethnicity.

The darker skinned the sexier.

This isn't just a "lust" thing, I think dark-skinned women are the most exotic, erotic, sexy, beautiful looking people on the planet.🌹

But, being a short, tubby white dude on the lower-end of average in the Meat Dept., I've never dared even try approaching a black woman.

Should I actually find myself realizing my dream, becoming intimate and naked with a woman of color, I fear I'd lose my cool replaying all the BBC scenes and Salt-N-Peppa lyrics that have been seared into my imagination over the years, and I suffer from Performance Anxiety! 😖

I could use a little one-on-one help with that if anyone is willing to be so kind as to mentor and help me build all the strength, confidence, and stamina I need within myself to overcome those insecurities. Please help 🙏

Whatever happens, it could be a ONS, NSA, or FWB thing, but I'm not necessarily opposed to something more if that's how it plays out in the long run either ... just to put that out there.

Also, the kinks I am not at all interested in are...

SPH Degradation Extreme Pain Incest Role Play Baby/Child Role Play

Other than those parameters, I think I'm fairly open to trying other play, but this is all new to me, and to be completely honest, while I am a fairly attractive looking guy, I do have body image insecurities with my aging, 5" Boner / Dad Bod physique ... so be gentle. 😉

A pre meet up casual date is ideal to see how we vibe first, and then we'll take it from there.

I'm cautiously concerned about STDs, or being attacked or mugged or some shit.

Meeting some stranger on the internet for random, casual sex seems like a very dangerous thing, and a likely way to end up dead or left for dead.

Our mutual comfort and safety is paramount.

DM me, and let the games begin!

{FYI - I'm new to all of this. See my profile for details}