This may come off as odd, but I got into this habit that seems to have become a necessity to anyone I dated once they realize they enjoy it. I know its silly, but I cant exactly tell it in person because its all either seen as embarrassing, immature and even some say its gay.

I had a girlfriend who always wanted to hear stories I read, but never wanted to read them. So I decided "why dont I read them to you before bed?" She agreed and we began doing this everyday for months.

Along with this, we began playing this game where my girlfriend would earn points for doing stuff thats needed or I personally enjoy. Prizes ranged from ice cream, new sex acts or even big things like going on abuild a bear date.

I started this because, in reality I loved dressing up girls in cute outfits and taking them on dates while they wear it. Most of my past ex's saw it as a incredibly gay act.

So, I played it off as bonding type of thing or a fetish of seeing them in clothes I like.

I loved it and really gave me that excited warm tingle when I got to do this, so once we broke up, I set it up with my next girl.. and every girl after.

Recently I checked in on one of my ex's and found out that those little activities really stuck to them. Making it VERY clear they only date guys who are ok with doing these things with them.

I could play it off as just a total coincidence for one, but each woman I did those things with, were obsessively trying to rebuild those in other relationships.

Some bragging about it, one even broke up with a guy for being too shy to do them!

Ive been quietly keeping tabs on it. Some expanded the actions into master/sub play, others went into ageplay, others began conditioning their boyfriends to like it.

One has flat out not dated after me, becoming obsessed with the idea, making tons of art about "daddys" and their "littles"

To this day its still this lingering thought. I just wanted to do things in a way that wouldnt get laughed at or belittled over it, now its something multiple of my ex's fantasize hard about