So I (M26) started dating an older dude late 30's. For context we've been friends for years. And he's always had a thing for me. I fed into every now and then. But last year I Started dating this girl and I was divided between staying with this girl or being with him. His kept saying "When will it be my turn.". And I got so fed up with it I said okay we started dating and now I regret it deeply. I can't stand when he calls me babe, I hate when he comes over. I love him as a friend, but as a boyfriend I'm not about this. I feel like I'm stuck because we have a friend group that has been close since high-school. And now he's talking about marriage, trips, etc. And I want the fuck out asap.