My fiancée and I have been together for almost two years. We’re polyamorous, and have been since the beginning of our relationship. I have three other wonderful partners. My fiancée and I share a lot of friends, which is why I’m scared. But they’re very controlling. They get mad at my mental illnesses, they refuse to listen when I try to tell them about my past. They look down on me, even though I’m the one who is working on a ph.d while they still live with their parents. They get mad when I have health issues, telling me to take better care of myself even though they aren’t health conditions I can control. I give them gifts, money, a ton of affection. Anything they ask for. I’ve done everything I can, but they way they treat me has caught up. I don’t think I love them anymore. Now, they plan on flying across the planet to live with me for a month. I’m…I’m honestly scared they’ll sabotage my relationship with my friends and partners. I live with my other partners and now I’m starting to panic. I don’t want them here. I don’t love them. I don’t know what to do. I just want to run from it all.