So I am currently 31, 32 in a month, and I am still a virgin. I feel if I was supposed to have been in a relationship and lost it, I would of already. I've been on like 2 dates and only kissed once. That's as far as I have gone. Never seen a girl naked at all. I feel like such a failure at life and hate that I listened to everyone who told "Don't look and let it happen naturally." That was such a lie or "Just be yourself". It's horrible advice. As much as I am just tired of being the third/fifth wheel all the time. Women just don't like me. I'm either too tall or too fat. Been laughed at when I tried to ask a girl out and got told I was scary. So, I just think that I should give up. I'm in my early 30's and never been in love, had sex or just held some one I cared for. I just see myself as useless.