Im not a bad person. I know I’m not. And I know I wasn’t abusive. I never laid a hand on her. I never berated her about her life. I never challenged her, because she told me she hated to be challenged. I let her take the lead in the relationship. I thought that’s what she wanted...so why does she keep telling people I “had a plan to leave” her? I never had such a thing. She’s making it sound like I was an ungrateful jerk. And like I dumped her.

I don’t get it...she dumped me. She told me everyday that I wasn’t “filling her love cup” and that no matter what I did I wasn’t “reading her love language Correctly” . But I tried, I swear guys, I would try to pick up lunch for her on her way home from work. She would tell me the food I picked was wrong and when I asked what I should get next time she rolled her eyes and walked away.

She made it clear that I was the one not living up to HER standards. So why am I the bad guy?

Don’t get me wrong I know I wasn’t perfect. I vape, I could have bad temper, I could get easily distracted, but like..why can’t she admit fault? Why does she say these things?

I know I shouldn’t care, but idk...I guess after she broke up with me I have hope we’d get back together. And her constantly saying these things makes me feel like she’s just gonna despise me more and more. And that hurts. I don’t hate her. I love her. So so much. What did I do to make her villian I’d me so?