I,am a 30yo F and I felt like I have done everything "right", I have played it safe all my life. I saved all my money in my 20s bought a house by the time I was 24. I was never lucky in love but people said you're too young, then it turned into you don't need anyone to do the things you want. Then I was told men don't want a needy woman, be independent. But now I'm being told I'm too independent. I actively searched for someone, I have put it in the back burner let it find me. Nothing. I have no idea where I went wrong, or what's wrong with me. Fuck I'm becoming more and more depressed and when I try to talk to someone about it they say you shouldn't complain you own your own house, you're medically retired and have money. What more could you possibly ask for. I'd trade it all being happy and struggling then alone and financial stability. Ideally of have both but I'd trade.