My uncle left a message on my phone to let me know that grandmother passed. His voice cracked and crumbled into crying. He wanted me to tell my father that their mother died. (They had a falling out quite long ago and are not in speaking terms) It was... strange and difficult to tell my father. My mind is in a weird place at the moment. Numb, empty, drained. I feel like a shell, but my body and mind feel so heavy. Do me a favor. Call your grandparents if you still have them in your life. Let them know you love them, I bet it'll make their day hearing from you. Don't be like me and put it off and make reasons. Time is precious, family is ever more so, stranger.