I, (27m) can’t take it anymore, my fiancé (29f) completely ignores me, just comes home sits on her phone and stays burried in it till she gets up to go lay down where she continues to be on it, I cook I clean I take care of the kids I do the laundry I walk the dogs I pay the bills I work a very physical 60 hr a week job I buy her anything she wants, I arrange baby sitters so I can take her on dates, I give her compliments, I ask her about her day everyday and get absolutely 0 back I couldn’t tell you the last time she gave me a hug or asked about my day or wanted to cuddle or offered a kiss without me asking, 7 days ago I stopped asking for a kiss and talking to her about her day and attempting to cuddle at night and I don’t even think she’s noticed we haven’t been intimate in months not solely because of her but because she only wanted to have sex when she’s drunk which really started to mess with me because like why am I only attractive enough to wanna do anything with when you’re drunk? She also quit drinking 6ish months ago, I just don’t know what to do anymore we’ve been together almost 10 years and I’m starting to absolutely despise her, I’m not happy I absolutely hate my life but I’m scared if I leave then how is she going to raise the kids when she has them because she doesn’t lift a finger to do anything, I stay for them but I don’t know how much longer I can take it. I’m sorry I know it’s a lot and jumbled but I just had to say it somewhere because I don’t have anyone I can confide in.