So, I’ve been thinking about this a lot, and I just needed to vent somewhere. I don’t really talk about this with anyone because, you know, it feels like people don’t take it seriously or think it’s weird. But I’ve got a pretty high sex drive, and sometimes it’s just exhausting.

I’m not talking about the occasional “let’s have sex” kind of thing, but more like, I’m constantly thinking about it. It doesn’t matter if I’m at work, hanging out with friends, or just doing normal stuff. I’ll randomly get these urges and feel like I’m gonna burst. And it’s not just physical; it’s mental too. I start getting distracted, and it can make everything harder to focus on.

It’s not like I can just talk to anyone about this. Whenever I mention it, I get weird looks or jokes about it being “just a phase.” People don’t really understand that it’s not about just wanting to do it whenever, but it’s this constant pressure that never really goes away. It affects my relationships too because sometimes I want things my partner isn’t on the same page with, and it just feels awkward to try and bring it up.

It’s exhausting. I feel like I’m too much, but also not enough at the same time. I can’t win. 😅 Anyway, just needed to get this off my chest. I’m sure I’m not the only one, but I don’t see anyone talking about it, so I wanted to share.