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What is it with some single men thinking they're entitled to your body? Whats with this trend of ghosting or blocking someone without explanation? What happened to human decency?
We get it, women have done you wrong. But I was literally married for 10 years and raised two step babies just for my now ex-husband to have an affair with, leave me for, and marry my "best friend". I'm not out here taking out his screw ups on you. I went to therapy. I did the work.
I'm kind. I'm understanding. I listen when someone speaks. I give the benefit of the doubt. I don't lie. I don't cheat.
I just don't get it.
It does, though. I know what I deserve and I know what I bring to the table. It's so frustrating.
I'm sorry women are just as bad. Accountability is lost on our generation.
I mean, you have two choices..live in the pain and act like a child or do the work and grow from it. Unfortunately, most of society chooses the former.
That's a huge compliment, btw. Thank you.
That's not an excuse. Period.
Get into therapy if you're that fucking broken, don't break someone else in the process.
Marriage wasn't hell for me, until it was. We were extremely happy until he cheated so it was a complete shock.
I loved married life and I hope to find that again one day.
I literally went through it and I'm choosing to leave people better than I left them. You make a choice and yall are apart of the problem.
That's typically who I gravitate towards because I'm the same way.
I hope you won't ever have to either. ❤️
I'm ok with baggage. What I'm not ok with is unresolved trauma.
It was. But it's a reflection of them and she'll lose him how she got him.
What are you talking about? Lol
I didn't filter through shallow criteria, but he definitely let for shallow reasons.
You're making a choice to do that. Almost like you're proud of it.
My "specifics" have nothing to do with it. To answer your question, yes. I do. There are medical issues in play that have absolutely nothing to do with my lifestyle or how I take care of my body. It's genetics.
You know nothing of my values, my moral compass, and quite frankly anything about me.
I'm very worthy of what I require from someone. I'm celibate, by choice, and everything else I listed above is true. Showing off my body as a confidence boost doesn't make me unworthy.
Congratulations on being part of the problem. You're judgemental, rude, and the holier than thou attitude you possess is quite frankly gross.
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She'll lose him how she got him. I fully believe it.