So I broke up with my first girlfriend, things got very serious very fast and a lack of intimacy was something that bothered me, though what made me leave was I'm not poly not that. So after that I was interested in exploring my sexuality, until I fully embraced being nonbinary I thought I was asexual. So I downloaded tinder and had a few spicy encounters. I was upfront with them that I'd just got out of a relationship that moved too fast so I wasn't being serious just having fun. It turned out to be way easier than I expected, that was a nice bonus to my ego lol. I was safe and had some experiences so no regrets lol, but I don't want any more.

I thought it would be rude to just ghost them, and I made no criticism of them, but is it a good thing to hear you helped a girl figure out she's a lesbian? Or is that something you'd rather not know?

I called it "market research" lol.