So last year I lived with my Narcissistic uncle and aunt for about 6-7 months. I graduated university but couldn't find a job in my field. My aunt said I could live with them as long as I worked on the side till I got the right job, I was grateful for thi and got a job in a coffee store temporarily.

However while living there her, her husband and narcissistic kids would say some of passive-aggresive things about me not finding a job in my field. My uncle even once said I was raised on a silver spoon despite his 23- year old daughter needing help to clean the kitchen. His daughter was consoled after she got fired while I was critized for not trying harder. My uncle gave me a list of contacts or "connections" but none of them were concrete. My aunt would also keep tabs on what I ate and would give me random chores she never gave her kids, like walking the dog every morning. When I would greet her in the morning she would always look at my food plate to see what I was eating and never said anything else apart from the shallow"hi". I tried being friendly but she became more belligerent and rude.

In my last month staying there my uncle accused me of being entitled towards my aunt and not taking initiative when it comes to chores.He became angry when I disagreed and went into narcissistic rage threatening to kick me out. At this point I also lost my temper and said I would gladly leave, he then threatened to tell my dad which I dated him to do, but took him by surprise since I didn't fall for his bluff. It was clear that him, my aunt and their child were talking behind my back. My aunt tried to play good cop while he apologized and tried to justify it but the damage was already done.

A few days later I got a high paying job in my field and there behavior completely changed. They became more friendly and all the criticism disappeared. My relatives kept emphasizing to keep in touch but I was mentally gone at this point and left as soon as my start date was decided. My dad messaged me a few days ago saying it isn't right that I don't communicate with them especially that I lived with them for a considerable period of time. I ended up confronting my dad about it demanding him to tell me what they told him but he hasn't replied since.

Now I'm angry and been like this the whole week. All I want is to let my relatives have it. Should I or should I just cut them off???