8 years ago I met a woman and was crazy about her. We had a crazy connection and I thought things were going fantastic. We talked constantly, had so much in common, flirted like crazy and made ourselves felt whole. I found out from a co-worker she was engaged and just using me as an emotional crutch because she was going through a rough patch with her fiancé not appreciating her. We continued for a bit but then fizzled out.

Fast forward I’m happily married and am at a completely different part of my life, she has a kid and her and her fiancé obviously got married… why do I still feel that ping in my heart and think about her regularly? I know she was using me and I know I felt was genuine but I’m in love with my wife and don’t have any regrets about us. I just feel a little guilty about it.