I want someone to build a life and love with someone already. I genuinely just think I'm not meant to go through this life alone, I've been single for a while now and I like myself and all that, but it's just not right for me. I hate the saying "love yourself first, then you won't need a relationship." I think it's blatantly false since humans are social creatures, meant to be in a community, and especially if you didn't get a good hand in childhood.

Where we think we're at in life is somewhat relative I guess - I don't think I have it all together, but I'm not in an awful spot either. I see all you out there posting the same thing, a lot of people like me who don’t have it all together but want love. So here I am, redirecting you to my recent post in r4r. Even if you feel like you’re too normal for something like that, please go read it. That’s why I posted this here, to get a better demographic than only the people who lurk there. Working hard for my true love here! 😭 This isn't an ad for buying anything, but if not allowed, I'll understand the post being deleted.

I’m a 25 year old woman who's attracted to cis women and cis men.