I’ve never understood it. I spend so much time trying to be there for people. I listen to them vent, write them cards, say nice things. I’m about to graduate high school and I have TWO friends. And I don’t even think 1 counts (she’s in a relationship, and her boyfriend hangs out sometimes). Even with her, I’m never a priority. No one picks up my calls, I always get left of read. I ALWAYS text people back. What am I doing wrong?? I’m outgoing, smart, friendly. If anyone tells me something that I’m doing wrong in a friendship, I FIX IT! I get friends sometimes, but they always leave. It’s like they only hang out with me when they have nothing better to do. I’m always the one who makes plans and reaches out. I pay for meals when they forget. Even my most recent birthday, an important one too, I had 1 friend come. I’m not trying to say she’s not good, I love her. I just wish I was her priority every once in a while. It’s funny because all the friends I’ve ever had have left for the same reason. “We just drifted apart” we didn’t drift? I never went away. I thought I really made a good friend, and today she totally broke my trust. I’m really just unlikeable tbh