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So I (26m) met this girl (31f) on hinge and went out with her. We really hit it off and I really enjoyed getting to know her on our first date. We went out a few times after that. I want kids and so did she, the only thing is that I wanted to have a relationship and let it grow from there. Now she said she wanted to take things slow (which I completely understand) but she kept talking about getting married and having kids and finding a husband. She admitted that she was really attracted to me (even sexually) however she told me that the next person she sleeps with she wants to be the father of her children. We only saw each other for roughly 2-2.5 months and I thought it was getting a bit much. I understand she is older and, despite what she said, wanted to get married and have kids a bit sooner than what was mentioned. I understood her situation and I didn’t feel it was fair to let it go on. Let’s say we slept together and broke up six months later, am I a f*ck boy for that? She was really cool and, as I mentioned before, I did like her. I even mentioned my concern about what she was saying early on, I made it clear I don’t want kids right away but I guess it didn’t settle with her. Eventually I stopped seeing her. I sometimes see her pop up on my dating apps and I want to desperately reach out to her but I know she has a set goal in mind and I am not ready to give that commitment right away.
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