I(26M) have just learned that my brother(29M) is pregnant. And what I mean by that is that my brother is a trans man. I currently live with him and his boyfriend in a one bedroom apt(them the bedroom, and me on the couch). We do have plans on getting a two bedroom apt so I can get my own space and stuff.

My immediate thought was that they were going to have me look for my own place when the baby comes. But when I voice my fear, they quickly assured me that was not happening. And then my second thought was that my brother has already accomplish so much more then me. And I kept that thought to myself.

He has completed wielding school, is in a healthy loving relationship with his boyfriend, and always does things that he set his mind to.

Where about me; I have drop out of college, have only been in one relationship that lasted less then a month. Had all of my friends drop me when when I started getting depressed. I did complete a data analysis course however, I can't get a job in my field at all.

My brother has created a mark in his life where I just existed. And I just don't know how to deal with it.