Apparently he thought that an accounting error, which his employers seeming failed to notice for three months, was a “raise”, even though the increase was from $18/hr to 36, he then went on to spend close to 3 grand more than he should have before his employers caught the oversight, now he has had his paychecks docked to recoup the money.

He has acted as though he is not at fault for not questioning the increase in pay right away, has had to ask our father for help with gas money and rent, he asked me for 300$ as well, when I am unemployed and needed to save that money (I gave in when he started to breakdown).

What pisses me off is that while this whole thing has been going on, he somehow finds the time to buy expensive groceries to make one off dishes to post to his FB, like buying a rack of ribs just for himself, or making sandwiches with expensive bread and fillings.