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Hello, I am here to look for someone who could be my potential partner, companion, best friend and lover. Before moving on, I have to say that my girls have asked me one question “how is a smart and confident person like you still single?” Well, the answer is simple as well; if I love someone I tend to become a person who wants to subservient to that person which has bothered many girls who either want someone who will treat them equally or lead the marriage and hence results in them rejecting me.
As someone who people tend to look up to, I find it difficult to maintain the same level of diplomacy and fearlessness in a relationship. Rather, I prefer to be in a Female Led Relationship (FLR) where the women prefers and enjoys having a relationship where she is in control and the husband is under her.
I have tried to avoid FLR in every relationships as this is seen as a man being weak, however, when it comes to the topic of house chores and related topics I start by saying things like “I want to be a future husband who cleans the house while you relax” or “I want to do as you wish because I want to respect you”. These make them feel pressured into being in control of their partner which leads them rejecting me. I just don’t have the willingness to conform to an equal relationship standards that I am not comfortable with.
I believe that, rather than fight a losing equal marriage battle, it would be better to find someone who wants a Female Led Marriage. Someone who would enjoy being in charge while letting me serve as a husband.
I also understand that there are kinks (obviously I have read about FLR and come across them) which we can discuss as we get to know each other better as friends.
The only aspect where I would prefer to make my own decisions is with regards to work clothing and personal care as the these are things that I have chosen after careful planning and consideration based years of experience. With regard to outside work I am more than happy to comply with whatever my future wife wants me to. Wife rules, husband obeys.
About me;
Age 29, single, never married, never wants to have children. Is cheerful and feels a deep sense of commitment to someone else when I am in a relationship where I automatically lose interest in all other girls. I don’t trust people easily due to backstabbing, yet, still treat them with respect regardless of who they are. Hobbies and interest and interest vary as I have a plethora of experience indoors and outdoors so I am not picky about anything. Same goes for food where I am not a picky eater. Not a religious person but still respects other religions.
Overall I just want a future wife who will accept my submission and enjoy being in charge of the marriage and me while still being my companion and the person I truly love.
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