I used to go down on my wife all the time for foreplay and such. The taste and odor was very pleasant. Soon we found out we were having a baby.(our son) and ofcourse we were thrilled.

Several weeks after our son was born, all her physiology returned to normal. However one day we started to get physical and I proceeded to arouse her vaginal area. But her smell and taste were a HUGE turnoff. Something changed. She was musty and not pleasant. I tried to do this several times throughout the following years.....yes its been 10 years now and the odor is the same. I feel bad bc she pleases me orally and I feel like a jerk for not reciprocating.

Please help me help my wife and my marriage. Thanks.