I have a bit of a virgin fetish and I have been with virgins before. Ideally, we would have a super romantic first time. I have a few ideas that include candles, lingerie, soft music, long foreplay, and general gentleness and kindness. Of course if you have a fantasy I would love to fulfill it. If we have the chemistry, I would like to teach you all about sex. Virgins often do not understand the body language involved in sex and I can help teach you that. This way you will feel less awkward and more confident.

Some general unsolicited advice for virgins (or anyone):

Sex is a big deal. Do not take it lightly.

Sex is emotional. Find someone you trust and someone you feel comfortable freaking out with because it may happen.

Sex is dangerous. There are risks of infections, STDs, pregnancies, etc. Be sure your partner is clean! Also, some things can happen after like UTIs, so be clear if the signs if that happens. For UTI, you can self-diagnose with strips from your drugstore, but you should see a doctor and get antibiotics. Cranberry juice/extract can help mitigate that, but nothing beats antibiotics. Go to the bathroom right after to 30 min after sex. For a yeast infection, the best cure is monistat 3 and cotton panties. Panty style is not important but the material is.

Sex the first time can be painful, so go very slow and communicate with your partner. Sex should never be painful, so if it there is pain something is going wrong.

Sex the first time... lubricant is key. Lots of lube.

Sex the first time, could have blood. My experiences usually do, but not always. It is not a huge amount of blood. Not even close to a period, so it is not like blood is gushing out. Just a small amount.

Sex the first time, be very kind and gentle. At least one partner will be very nervous or shy and it is best to be kind and to give reassurance. It is easy because first times are so romantic and special :-)

Sex is awesome! It feels awesome and it totally connects you to your partner. I recommend being with someone you find attractive.

Orgasms are amazing! Especially if you go at the same time.

Sex is healthy. Makes many things work better, as long as it does not lead to disease or infection (duh!).

Sex makes you feel better, generally speaking. If it does not, then there is something wrong.

If anyone has any questions, let me know. If you are in Hawaii or visiting, I would be happy to meet. If you aren't ready for sex, I can also teach you about flirting and foreplay. I mean the things that you would discover like how to touch a penis or practice taking off clothes, but I can help you practice. First kisses are awesome too.

I hope to hear from you. Aloha!