Hello reader, welcome to my ad!

I hope you find yourself comfortable and ready to read, because this is a long one, but I hope by the end of this I can convince you to reach out to me; someone who has been described as "having a unique mix of super chad like muscle-twink, but this really warm, gentle sensitivity, as well as open-mindedness and attitude, mixed with intelligence," and "reminds me of old Greek and Roman statues."

Before getting into too many details, I want to be clear that I am in a polyamorous relationship with my girlfriend and she is aware I am looking for other partners (and actively encourages it); and that I am genderfluid and AMAB, which to me means I enjoy and am comfortable presenting masc, femme, or androgynous depending on the day. I understand that not everyone is looking for a partner like me, and I respect that, but if you are still interested, or just want to be friends, please feel free to continue and inquire if you're still intrigued!

I'll start with a bit about me:

I’m 5’7, 137lbs, athletic/toned, with black hair and dark brown eyes. Feel free to check out my photos on here or my Fetlife (https://fetlife.com/users/9113550)! Should we hit things off, I am more than happy to verify I am who I say I am, and I would hope you are, too!

Career-wise, I’m a business consulting professional and typically working from my apartment in NYC.

I've been told I am very logical, technical, and calculating in how I approach challenges and life, in general, which leads to some silly situations. Someone once told me if I had to break through a wall I would be persistent (and maybe a little stubborn) enough to slowly chip it away with a spoon. I see the fact that I don't settle as a defining trait of mine, and I always try becoming the best person I can be! One of my life goals is to have a positive influence on anyone who comes into my life. Hopefully we can help build one another into the best versions of ourselves.

Some vanilla hobbies/interests of mine are: history (I love Roman/Greek/Egyptian/and 1800s-1950s eras); tabletop games (Chess, Settlers of Catan, Pandemic, Secret Hitler, D&D, Here to Slay, Codenames, etc.); playing sports/any outdoor activities (I love playing soccer & hiking); video games (mainly Civ V/VI, Stellaris, BTD6, and some other dorky niche games); coffee/whiskey/scotch (in moderation); travelling (spent a month in Europe in early 2019, went to the Shenandoah National Park for my birthday last year, took a trip to San Francisco last fall, and I'm looking to go to Greece later this year); investing/personal finance; museums; and painting.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a relationship with elements of D/s sprinkled in, but not totally encompassed by kink; a normal relationship with a kinky twist. That being said, I do prefer people who have some (or a lot of) kink experience already and share some of my hobbies. I'm on safari for someone who sees me as their equal; who I can trust and be trusted by; who I can care for and be cared for by; and who feels comfortable being silly, emotionally open, and vulnerable together. I am more than happy to discuss dynamics and such as we chat more. Ideally, the relationship will be in-person, but I'm happy to chat online for a bit first if that would make you more comfortable.

Now, transitioning to the dark side:

I've been in the scene since I was 18, had a variety of experiences as a Dom, switch, and sub, but I've realized I'm a sub-leaning switch who enjoys topping or bottoming depending on the person I'm with. In my time exploring my kinks I've collected a sizable number of toys, bondage/BDSM gear, and clothes/lingerie/gear. I’m into a lot kink-wise, such as D/s, role reversal, tease & denial, pegging/strap-on play, genderbending, feminization, chastity/orgasm control, latex, leather, bi-play, group sex, bondage, rope, bimboification/dollification/droneification, service-oriented submission, cum play, humiliation/degradation, objectification, toys, oviposition, impact play, setting rules, edging, collars, gags, body worship, predicaments, anal play, pet play, aftercare, gentle femdom, head scritches/pats, cuddling (so deprived, I know), and more! I know I listed off a ridiculous number of kinks, but I'm happy to talk through it whenever you want/feel comfortable to do so. I'm also more than happy to explain any of the ones you may be unfamiliar with, too. As a sub, I range from super cute and cuddly; to slutty, desperate mess; to semi-bratty/sarcastic; to hyper-service-oriented and respectful (I like to keep people on their toes, and I hope you do, too).

My hard limits are scat, body modification, blood play, permanent damage, knife/needle play, blood play, fire play, diapers/infantilism, some forms of public play, beastiality, findom, anything involving under-aged individuals, and blackmail (that is all I can think of, presently).

If you have made it this far, feel free to tell me how you take you coffee or tea (or if you dislike both, what your preferred beverage is), and your preferred pronouns in your message!

As a treat for making it this far, here are two semi scandalous photos of my femme and masc self:

Femme: https://imgur.com/a/46yoFRW

Masc: https://imgur.com/a/ewCNztF

Feel free to use any pronouns with me (she/her or he/him).

If you have any questions feel free to ask me! I look forward to hearing from you, and I hope you have a fantastic day!