I like treating consenting women horribly, and that's what I'm looking to do with you. I am looking for something ongoing, but I may be open to a one-time thing, depending on the person.

This is a long post; if you want to be treated like a fucktoy and a set of holes, it's worth your time to read it all.

About me

I'm educated, am a C-suite executive, and enjoy reading, sports, cooking, and trying new bars/restaurants. I am over 6’. I workout daily but have a dad bod that is disappearing, relatively hung, and have great stamina. I'm an experienced Dom, slut trainer, sadist, and a rough sex enthusiast who gets off on doing to consenting women things that they love and need. As I've told one of my partners, "I show you affection by treating you horribly."

About you

I'm looking for an open-minded, in-shape woman who is into rough and mean play and wants to be trained.

Bonus points if you're a white-collar professional with a demanding job (e.g., law, medicine, consulting). Additional bonus points if you're petite. Married women to the front.

Our first meeting (date?)

First dates are always in public, over coffee, a drink, or a walk in the park. After that, you'll go home, and if we're both interested, we'll meet again to play.

Before we meet, I will send you a list of questions for you to answer in writing so I can refer back to your responses when needed. The questions will touch on several relevant topics, including your limits and experience.

During this initial meeting, we will communicate extensively to establish limits, likes, dislikes, fantasies, etc. We will also review the responses to the list of questions above to ensure I haven't misunderstood anything. Once we're done with our initial discussion, we'd both go home and meet in private later if that's something we both want.

Of course, you are welcome and encouraged to ask me questions before and during this initial meeting.

Everything is up for negotiation; however, if something that is a hard limit for you is something I can't go without, I'll let you know, and we won't go any further.

Our second meeting

If our first date goes well and we are both interested in playing, we'll set up a day to meet, and I will book a hotel room.

You will be told what to wear the first time, and I will check at the door to make sure you've followed orders. We will then sit and have a drink while we go over your limits again, and I walk you through what has been planned.

The first play session will be tamer than normal (unless you're very experienced), and I will check in often, given that I have not learned your body yet. If you're a newbie who doesn't know her limits and what she likes, we will try new things to figure it out.

What to expect during the first session

I operate differently depending on my partner. With certain partners, I can and do enjoy operating as a more gentle, affectionate Dom, similar to a pleasure Dom. If you want this, mention it to me in your initial message.

With other partners, it can be a little dark, and to be honest, this is my favorite.

It might be considered degrading because I like choking you, using you as a footstool, restraining you, ordering you to blow me, and more.

Verbally and mentally, I enjoy objectifying you, letting you know what a desperate little fucktoy you are, making you wear a collar and leash, reminding you how greedy you are for cock, and telling you how your best qualities are your tight holes. I enjoy making women cum, but I also enjoy edging them first and only letting them cum once they've begged like a desperate slut. I like reminding women how dirty they are and how good that is.

I love being in control, and I expect my partners to give up control and do as told. Again, if something is a limit, you will not be ordered to do that thing.

None of my verbal abuse relates to body shaming or making you feel worthless. I just want you to feel like a good whore. Besides, your holes have worth, so you can't be entirely worthless.

When we're done, your holes will be in pain, and your ass will likely be marked up. You'll be sweaty, cum multiple times, and likely a mess. You'll feel used, like a set of holes whose sole purpose is to be used by me, and you'll be happy about it.

After that, we'll cuddle, chat, and debrief; I'll feed and keep you warm, shower, and end the night.

Aftercare will always be provided (unless you specifically do not want it), including me checking in after you've gone home. You're also welcome to spend the night if you so choose.

After the first play session

I am looking for something ongoing, as I find sex is better with a person with time. However, I'm not opposed to a one-time session either.

If this continues, I would like it to become a FWB situation. I might invite you to play with my other subs. I am a private person, and I also expect you to be.

If this becomes ongoing, we won't be engaging in BDSM scenes every time. There will be times when we will hang out and have tons of sex interspersed with cuddles.

If you're a cuck couple, you are welcome to message me. I'm not interested in couples looking to swap or watch without involvement.

Men, this post is not for you.

If any of the above resonates with you, message me, and we can talk.