Hi Reddit! I'm a 33-year-old woman with a great career who works hard managing a team at a nonprofit, makes good money, travels often, has a cute apartment with art and lamps and plants, and in general exudes confidence and has-her-shit-together-ness (or so I've been told). AND: I just want someone to wrap me up and make me feel safe.

Basically, I've used Reddit for sex many times and had fun but, lemme be honest with you, it's effing cold out and my seasonal affective disorder is in high gear. So... will you please cuddle me?

I mean... we can do other things too. But cuddling should be a big part. I'm used to being in charge in most situations and more dominant while intimate with people and, while I'm not looking to sub for anyone (hard capital D Doms need not apply), I don't want to feel like I have to be the sole caretaker in intimate situations, you know? So, please just take off your clothes, get under the covers, and put your skin on my skin. Did I mention it's cold out?

Me: Plus size/curvy (about 215/size 16, for reference). I used to be very fat, but I have lost weight in the past year or so. I'm used to being much bigger. But now I am much smaller (although not, like, small obviously). And I want to like... burrow into someone, now that I can do that. (Can I burrow into you? Will you be my big spoon?) Other things to know about me are that I'm 5'4, I have tattoos all over my arms (and one on my leg), piercings on my ears/nose, I'm a brunette with some old red blonde dye growing out (and some silver coming in at my temples lolsob), and my wardrobe is filled with black. Think slightly alt plant lady queer librarian with big glasses and soft tits.

You: I think someone around my age or a bit older would be nice for this, so ideally you're in your 30s or early 40s. Physically I'm pretty open when it comes to partners but for this I think someone on the fit to dad bod side and/or someone who is taller than me would make the whole cuddling thing feel well matched (both don't need to apply to you, one or the other works). You should also ideally be able to hold a conversation, be vaccinated, have good hygiene, and smell nice (smell is so important???). Please also be SINGLE (cheaters, I can always tell if you're lying). Lastly, you should definitely be into women with body types like mine. I'm not interested in anyone who'll "settle" for me, you know?

If you want a response, chat (don't DM) me: Your age, some info about who you are, why you're into curvy women, and a photo (face / torso / whatever you're comfortable with).

Thanks for reading. :)