How to ask a friend if they want to hook up

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SlackDeck is in New York City

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I’m meeting up with a friend I haven’t seen in a good 8 months. We’ve always been flirtatious and have talked about sex often but never really between us two. How do I ask him if he wants to hook up? I like going into something prepared and aware ahead of time, which is why I want to ask him. Or is it better to just follow the vibes and see where things go? My issue with that is I don’t think either of us will be forthcoming enough to ask in the moment and the sexual tension will just linger. Any advice on how to just be upfront without sounding creepy and desperate? I know we both have fantasized about each other over the last couple of years of our friendship- so I don’t feel like it’s totally out of left field- just want to be direct and frank

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