So I went to GBU this past Saturday(against my own best interest) after saying I’d never go again some months ago because a friend talked me into going again. I know this was a naked party, and I know what comes with it but some of these guys really need to learn what consent means. Just because a person is naked, doesn’t give you an excuse to grab their penis without some sort of consent on their part. It can be a smile, eye contact, or just talk to them! There were a few guys who were extra grabby. Most stopped after I said no a few times but one in particular would not give up. After the 3rd or 4th time I actually had to get physical with him and then report him to whoever was working. He should’ve gotten kicked out. They talked to him (I watched) and eventually he stopped touching me. Yes, he actually tried one more time and I wanted to kill him. I saw him doing this with at least one more person and his reaction was similar to mine. Anyway, thankfully he didn’t completely ruin my night and I had fun with a few others.

But guys, no means no and just because you’re in a place where everyone is naked, doesn’t give you the right to touch or grab without some sort of consent. Use your words, eyes, something!

I don’t plan on returning especially after feeling violated. Honestly this time. Not worth the money ($48 now!) and majority of the guys are no where near attractive.