After matching with/traveling to numerous different cities around the world nyc looks to be less desirable overtime. The truth is the grand majority of men ( all races) not only prefer white men but are not attracted to black men meaning even if your attractive you still are only limited to other black men or people who fetishize you.

In different cities around the world in Europe and Latin America you almost forget that your black, the quality of men is almost the same quality an average looking white guy can aspect back home. Guys treat you with much more respect and view you as a human being. Guys who I thought will not even spit on me from the states, will want to talk/get to know me. I even done better in objectively more racist countries ( Poland and Romania) than I did any accepting "melting point" in America.

To any black guys here I recommend just saving your money and traveling abroad if you want a much better experience.