Hi all. Looking for some advice on prepping for sex as a btm. I've seen a lot of posts here that say douching should take "no more than 10 min" and I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong bc it always takes substantially longer for me.

I've tried bulbs of different sizes, fleets, saline, tap water. Every time it either takes a long time to get clean, or I'm left with some retained water that comes out during sex, or I have uncomfortable "have to poop" feelings that kill the vibe.

I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong or if this is just my body. I haven't tried diet modification aside from taking daily colostrum (im mostly vegetarian, so I'm pretty good on fiber already). I also havent tried Imodium.

Just want to be clear that I'm not expecting perfection every time. I know s#it happens. But I'm trying to make this a more realistic and pleasant experience for me where I'm not always feeling like I've got water down there.

So what do you do? Appreciate tips and advice. Thanks!