I am not validating racial preferences in dating or hookups, but we all know thereās a large segment of the community that has them. Whether you call it preference or sexual racism or something else, it exists.
Although it was not great in the past to see someone say āno blacks, no Asiansā or to have someone list every race except yours as their preference, at least you knew and didnāt waste time trying to engage or trying to figure out why they didnāt respond. Now itās harder and honestly more demoralizing. At least thatās true for me - others may disagree.
Do I want a return to the old days? No, not really. But the current version where folks are just too polite (ashamed?) to admit it also isnāt working.
Iām drunk, Iām sure Iāll delete this later
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