Straight, white, European male in early 30's, and pretty attractive by all standards - don't identify as bi or gay but figure i'd try something new with my life. Today was my first time doing the steam room "cruising" (new word i've learned) experience so want to share this story with you.

Went to a local gyms (won't mention names) steam room to test it out. After about 10 min, there were only three guys remaining (all white, but one was kinda fat, so that wasn't a path i was trying to go down) - one guy started showing his dick and other started touching himself, so i just figured why not and whipped mine out as well. I just wanted to get touched and did not want to touch, so I pushed my dick out and let the guy next to me know this is an invitation. He started jerking me off, but it didn't flow well so he spit on his hand to lube it up. Since this was my first time I was kind of shy, so before I was about to cum I pushed his hand away, but he looked down and saw my load everywhere. Wiped myself off and left immediately after w/o making eye contact.

Overall, i'd rate it as a 6.5/10 experience and probably something i'd try again in the very near-future.