This is more of a fun post, but after going to a handful of orgies and sex parties in the city, both commercial and invite-only private ones, I notice one can rank one's level of attractiveness perceived by other guys there in a few tiers:

• "Eww:" They will brush you off as soon as you try to approach.

• "Ugh, fine, I guess:" They will passively let you touch them, even blow them, but don't expect them to return any favor.

• "I guess he's ok-looking enough for a sex party but I won't respond if he hits me up on Grindr:" They'll return some favors, maybe exchange heads if you have a nice dick, but don't expect a kiss or eye contact nor anything more romantic besides a handjob or blowjob.

• "I'm not sure, he's kinda cute, but not that cute:" They will make out with you if the timing is right. Usually either when one of you is in complete ecstasy from getting railed by a third guy.

• "Ok, this dude is pretty cute:" Eye contact, winks, smiles, and hot making-out sessions in addition to the sex. Maybe some small talk and light flirting, too.

• "OMG I think I found my man (who is railing or getting railed over there):" Insane hot sex and couldn't care less of the surroundings, and will ask for your contact at the end.