How far in advance are you all scheduling hook ups/sex dates? I'm finding lately if it's someone I've hooked up with before, I don't mind making plans a few days out; for example I had some fun with a guy I met at Wrecked and then we made plans to meet up a few days later for a proper sex date. Or if it's a FWB I'll schedule a few days in advance. But some rando from Grindr?? What if I'm planning for this in advance and it's bad? What if the day comes and I don't feel like having sex? No, I'm not one of those guys that's just always horny 24/7, some days I'm just not in the mood...I try not to be flaky but I admit I've canceled last minute a couple of times.

Curious to hear your thoughts on this? Full transparency, I was in a monogamous relationship for almost 7 years and then Covid happened 3 months after we broke up so I'm currently in my first ever hoe phase!