Hey there! I'm planning a weekend trip to NYC with my friend to celebrate his birthday. We'll be in the city from Friday noon until Sunday noon, staying at the Element New York Times Square West. We're really excited but haven't lined up any activities yet and could use some advice to make the most out of our stay. NYC's vast options can be quite daunting!

My friend (34 yo, black T) is a big fan of Japanese culture, including anime and music, and he enjoys a lively nightlife scene. I, (34 yo Indian B) on the other hand, have a keen interest in art, literature, and museums. We're both looking to enjoy some great food and drinks, as well as explore the city's vibrant club scene.

We'd appreciate recommendations on:

1. Bars, restaurants, and eateries worth checking out, especially for a memorable birthday dinner on Friday, followed by a fun night out.

2. Clubs or venues where we can enjoy dancing and possibly more "adventurous activities". We're open to exploring bar hopping, clubs, or other nightlife spots on Friday and maybe head to bathhouse or sex parties on Saturday.

3. Suggestions for daytime activities like museums, art installations, or unique projects around the city. Also, if you know any good spots for a relaxing massage with happy endings, that would be great!

Any tips or suggestions from locals or those familiar with NYC would be incredibly helpful.

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Thanks in advance!