I (24M white twunk) moved to NYC about a year ago. For about 6 months prior to living here, I had been commuting 2 days a week from New Jersey for work. I’d utilize some down time for my office days at my previous job being on the apps, and I found myself getting a good amount of attention. But I haven’t had the nearly the same amount of luck/attention after moving here (it’s pathetic tbh).

I’m mostly attracted to men roughly 15-40 years older than me (don’t judge - we all have our tastes). In other places I’ve lived in, I found that I was the type of this demographic. But there seems to be a lack of older men in NYC who like/willing to have sex with younger men.

Did all the daddies decide that they’ll barely utter a word to younger men? Did they all mass migrate to a new city? Are they all taken? Or is it a me problem and I have just aged out of being their type?