When a Grindr trick comes directly to your home, do you worry about safety? Like getting robbed or assaulted? (Not safety in relation to STDs--that needs a different post.) If so, what measures do you take to protect yourself, or do you just cross your fingers and hope for the best? I prefer to meet guys in public first, but some guys just won't do it. Maybe they don't want to have to spend money at a bar or coffee shop. Maybe they want to avoid a "date-y" vibe. Whatever the reason may be, I encounter a lot of guys who expect to just come to my place and hook up. If I always say no this, it limits my prospects, but in my gut, I don't feel comfortable with it. Would love to hear others' perspectives. Thanks!

Small edit for clarification: My question also applies to the reverse situation: someone insisting that you come directly to his place.