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I'm not sure if this is work harassment and looking for advice.
I admit I was originally in the wrong and feel disgusting about all of this.
Two years ago I started flirting with a male CNA through text messaging outside of work. I sent him some NSFW photos but never a full blown nude photo.
His girlfriend also works at our hospital as a housekeeper and she found out became angry and called me telling me I needed to stay away from him. So I did and it ended.
Afterwards she in a way tried to become my friend and would always cry to me that he was flirting with other women, I told him to leave him.
I noticed around this time last year she stopped talking to me and wasn't as friendly towards me. I never had a problem getting a long with the male CNA and kept things professional at work.
For the past six months this woman has been harassing me at work. She has told almost every nurse and CNA that I send nude pictures to her boyfriend. She has screamed at me in patient care areas telling me I need to learn my place and to stay away from her boyfriend. Screaming down hall ways that I send nude pictures to her boyfriend. Every single day she goes ew disgusting and calls me bad words in her language. Every single day for the past six months this has been going on. Everyone has been talking about it because they see her screaming at me constantly and she tells everyone I send nude photos to her boyfriend.
I feel absolutely embarrassed and disgusted for all of this. I feel that I am in the wrong because two years ago I did send him NSFW pictures via text message. I never did anything at work and kept it all professional. When she screams ate I just walk away.
I don't know what to do if this is considered bullying since I did send him pictures two years ago and did flirt with him via text message. I have had no contact with him outside of work or ok text message for over two years and I have not sent him anything and never did send a full blown nude photo.
I'm not sure what to do and seeking advice as I am so embarrassed.
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