so i was reading a post where a young person had questions about died hair, and remembered this anecdote.

im not saying its advice, or a rule, but it happened, and it might provide insight to some who are maybe starting out.

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i was at a party once, fyn spring bash i think, back at sunsport, a long time ago...

someone had glowstick bracelets, and a young lady decided they would look good as, 'ahem' cock rings.

So this was late in the night, the kids were all in bed. it was dark in the woods. in this scenario, it was acceptable by the attendees in question. There was a co-ed body painting booth, and we had already spent days getting to know each other, yoga, massage, etc... we were comfortable with each other

(it made it a lot easier to tell who were the guys, and who were the girls in the dark.)

this wasnt a sex thing, no one was having sex in public (back at the tent might have been a different story) this was just decoration, akin to body painting.

So there are situations where some of the more extreme circumstances are ok, but this is not the norm by any means. it was a big drunken party full of consenting adults only.

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that said, i saw an old guy on a public beach wearing a cock ring, just walking down the beach. i was not a fan of that at all.

a piercing isnt something you can "wear" like an accessory, its semi-permanent, but wearing sexual assistance jewelry in a place where children are playing is not a good conversation starter in my opinion.