It's been a while since I've made one of these. I'm a very experienced Dom (14 years on and off), I specialize in online play, but I would like to do more IRL if future situations allow.

About Me

I'm 5'9, shy under 200 lbs, I have a bit of a married husband bod, but I do work out regularly. (My wife doesn't mind me playing online) I walk/run at least 6 miles a week and do weight training. I have brown hair and green eyes, I wear glasses for the most part since I work from home (blue light blocking), but I wear contacts when the occasion suits it. I'm a bit of a nerd, I read often, I play magic regularly with my pod and play video games (multiversus), Im also a large film buff as well.

As far as my style is concerned, I believe in ground rules/boundaries, and I feel like once you know your boundaries, you can realize the freedom within. I expect obedience and respect, and I'm not afraid to punish if your actions merit them, though I will not do this unwarranted (don't worry!)

If you're still here, then you've made it through the first sort.

What I'm looking for

I prefer that you are within my physical criteria - younger than me and shorter. I don't mind if you're new or experienced with the lifestyle, I just want to know what you know to know where we can go moving forward. I'm a very structured Dom, so I'm looking for someone who is obedient and a good listener (those are NOT the same thing!) I'm looking for someone who isn't just looking for sex, but is also interested in getting to know each other. I feel a dynamic can bear more fruit when the relationship is more intimate. I'm looking for a sharp, witty mind - a clever girl. Someone who likes to be challenged and is cultured. If I drop something subtle, I'd be thrilled that you caught my reference, that sort of thing.

I enjoy my women with curves, and so I will be looking for curvier girls first before anything else. I also would prefer you to have a short list of limits, as well as an open mind. Other than these things, I'm flexible, and I'd love to get to know you!

Someone who is a bit of an exhibitionist is also a big plus, my wife has expressed that should would like to see me fuck and play with another woman. You would solely be my plaything, but someone who wouldn't mind being watched from time to time gets bonus points for sure. This is a negotiable point.

As I mentioned, I am married, I have a job and a life of my own. I'm looking for a kinky someone to spend some of the time I have left conversing with. With this being said, you are "in addition to", and not "instead of" and if you are the needy type who cannot respect that I have a life outside of this, then we would not match. I have no desire to leave my wife and attempting to undermine or complicate things of that nature are an instant block.

My Kinks

It's easier to tell you what I don't like than to tell you what I do like, but here are just a few things I enjoy:

• Bondage (light/heavy depending on you)
• Breast/Nipple play
• CNC/Free Use
• Impact play
• Orgasm Denial
• Rope play
• TPE

My Limits

My limits involve anything related to the following:

• Animal
• Gore
• Scat
• Watersports

What should you send me?

Congrats on making it this far!

I want to know about you, tell me what you look like, your figure, your ambitions. Use code word: Arsene to tell me you've read this far. Tell me your familiarity with the lifestyle and what you hope to achieve/are looking for. I want to know what you want out of this and why you think you're a good fit.

I'm fine with anyone from anywhere as I prefer to keep it online for now, but if you are closer, I would love the option of moving this to an IRL format.