This will be long and I’m hoping it will weed out the weak connections and creepers

My partner: Wanting a Texas sized man with southern charm and maybe an accent?? 🤣…In all seriousness that does sound great, but just want someone healthy (your size is fine if you feel healthy) and definitely throw me around strong, preferably 5’7 and my age or older to be my forever partner. I do prioritize eating healthy and trying to live a toxin free life as much as possible and would like the same. Considerate and protective are musts and make me feel very secure. Security is one of the most important aspects of love for me and I need someone who understands how to provide and maintain security. Someone who communicates their needs, wants, and has the emotional intelligence to share their feelings with me even if they don’t with others. A soft dom who loves giving praise, choking, and giving into primal instincts with his sub. I don’t care much how you are with others (I mean don’t be an asshole but if you’re reserved that’s fine) but with me I’d like sweet yet firm, gently rough if that makes any sense. Not into big city living-more of a small town country guy. Naturally a provider of safety and security. Also just a natural provider, someone who doesn’t see that as a burden or an outdated way of doing things.

Me: I was raised in small town…I am mixed with tan skin and dark hair and eyes. My hair is curly and short. I’m slim and average height with small breasts and booty but surely fun still. Have tattoos and piercings and want a bit more. Devoted momma to one. Creative artsy type with a bit of a potty mouth. I paint and write a lot. Love music and find it essential to my happiness. I have an eclectic collection, I can find songs for almost any mood or feeling. I am a comfort master and will ensure we always have the softest blankets to cuddle in & the coziest home, and I will always make sure you are comfortable with me, our relationship, our family, and our home. Being comfort obsessed also means I’m not big on being uncomfortable so I need someone who prioritizes my comfort with them and our relationship. Educated and constantly consuming more knowledge, so I can hold a conversation and will talk your ear off about life, love, and language… always doing or learning something-Very nurturing, thoughtful, and affectionate. Tend to be what some consider clingy, but I respect my partner and lean in and out when needed. All in lover, fully giving myself to my partner is all I want, just so happens I want to also fully submit sexually. Speaking on sex let’s get this out of the way: I have hsv2 and for the most part asymptomatic. I know my body, watch my triggers and symptoms and keep my partner safe to the best of my ability. Willing to go back on meds to limit transmission as well. I have found it to be minimally impactful to my life other than the anxiety around disclosure so I’m starting there.

Sex & intimacy: I’m quite over settling for purely vanilla sexual pleasure. I’d prefer a dominate partner who will take charge of our sex life (light on the BDSM but definitely kinky) with lots of choking, creampies, and cockwarming. And with all with sooo much love affection, praise and snuggles. Love being bathed after rough sessions. Certain public play is okay, but I’m not trying to get in trouble or traumatize anyone. Nature is a great place to bond deeply though 😉 curious and willing to try anal. While I have a thing for humping soft things 🫣 I’m not really into age play or regression, but willing to explore a connection with a “daddy” that doesn’t need those things. I do go through asexual phases or ones where penetration just isn’t a desire and I need an understanding partner. During these times I still like cuddles and kisses. When not in those states I’m unusually hyper sexual. I see kisses and cuddles and maybe having your hand on my throat often as my favorite forms of intimacy. But also just love talking while holding hands and looking into each others eyes

Home life: I’m simple and quiet and want to be away from busy life with lots of neighbors. Small town, mountain/country living is my ideal. Land to build a home together would be amazing. Would love a little piece of paradise to pass down to our kids one day. And I really like making things and having someone to make a home with just sounds ridiculously romantic. I want to homestead and homeschool. Which means I’m the ultimate homebody! 🤣 but really not a party girl, more a let’s have a bbq kinda lady. I will cook for you, teach our kiddos, and make our house a home. Your hard work will always be appreciated and mirrored by the work I put into our family and home. Someone who values the more traditional way of raising a family where mom is always there matters to me. I’m not a gold digger, but I do appreciate a person who doesn’t mind being the provider; I just want to be comfortable and be at home with my kiddo(s). Cute date nights on the regular but spending time with family is incredibly important and rewarding to me.

Parenting: Our kids will always be treated with compassion and love and they will learn the skills they need in life. I was a private nanny for 6 years before becoming a mom. I study child development, psychology, parenting skills, and non-traditional education, so you can imagine I will be very responsive to their needs while teaching autonomy and independence. I’m a gentle parent not permissive. I believe kids should get to be kids and figure out the word and life in ways that will be meaningful. I’m all about intentional parenting that fosters confidence and accountability. I expect a partner in parenting. This means while I will be doing the teaching, I expect you to be present, thoughtful, and conscious with your efforts as a father(stepfather). I am open to more children, but it would be intentional as I’ve had my tubes removed. I am very open to people with existing children as long as the logistics of childcare/ coparenting are feasible for us both. I cannot leave CO for the foreseeable future, so if you can’t move here please be understanding enough to be long distance or not reply.

I won’t send pics on this app (bad experience), but I am definitely open to switching elsewhere to share our pics if there’s a connection.