Hello, I'm a 30 something year old white male. Fit athletic build (I lift weights). 5 foot 7 and 170 pounds. Beard and shoulder length dark brown hair usually in a poney tale. 6.5 inches and thick. I enjoy coffee, nature, music, reading books and more. 420 friendly. I'm a very kind, funny and good looking man.

I've been single for a few months now, out of a unexpected toxic and intimately starved relationship (she was fearful avoidant and had intimacy issues), the whole thing became emotionally abusive on her end towards me. Due to this I have had a very long dry spell and I'm sick of swiping on dating apps so thought I would try something new. 🙂 Hoping to find a nice fun woman to show me what I've been missing the last couple of years.

I have slept with a few women but am somewhat inexerienced as I spent much of my earlier years with men. I am very intrested in finding a regular fwb with a female who is intrested and turned on in teaching me the ropes. I love the idea of taking my time to ravage a woman, slowly eating her pussy, fingerings her, extended forplay and tongue play until your begging me to fuck you. While at the same time your open to communicating what you like and don't like and teaching me the ropes on how to pleasure you well, and of course returning the favor back. How do you like to be eaten, fingered, fucked? I promise I'm a eager and willing student and it will be well worth your time.

You: -Are based in Chicago (not intrested in long distance or driving to the burbs -Are single (I'm not a home wrecker) -Are clean; std, sti and disease free (I am too)

-Are preferably 23 -43 years old (but I don't have any age hangups so feel free to message me if a little outside this range -Are relatively fit and good looking, I take care of myself so you should too. This is of course based on perception. -You can host. This is a preference, I can host but have roommates so would prefer more privacy if you have your own place -Are willing to meet in a public place for coffee or a drink first to vibe check

Bonus / Optional: -I'm also intrested in exploring light Dom/sub play (I'm dom). I haven't gotten a chance to explore this yet but I have a desire. Hair pulling, spanking, dirty talk, rope play, biting, orgasm control, toys ect. Nothing that actually harms or degrades either of us. This is optional though, if your not intrested in this and like the rest of the post I'm totally fine with vanilla, but throwing this in here in case your intrested.

-Other intrest is exploring tantra, optional as well.

If this post interests you please send me a DM with a little about you and a face picture (and others if you like). If I'm intrested I'll send pics back and we can chat a bit and plan a coffee meet.