Hey Guys,

Hope everyone's having a decent Friday. I haven't completely pulled the trigger on my nosurf journey currently, but I've made some moves by deleting some social media (instagram and snapchat) but I only have a Facebook account which I only use messenger to keep in touch with friends. I have whatsapp too but I only use whatsapp to stay in touch with co-workers and conversations are strictly work related.

My main crux of my problem comes with finding likeminded people in our age demographic. Whenever I go to social gatherings, friends bday parties, meetups, mixers, etc. Everyone just feels the same- sterilised, on their phones, scrolling.

To give an example. I was at a gathering last night, speaking to someone, mid sentece their friend came up them and they immediately turned their back on me as if they forgot I existed. It really peeved me off to be honest. I have no idea if this is a symptom to tiktok brain or what.

I just wanted to get some advice. How do you guys find likeminded people? Especially when it feels like 99% of people do not think like us at all.