We are a couple that have been looking for out first fmf for a while now and have put jn EVERY post ,,,, NO MALES MARRIED OR SINGLE, JUST LOOKING FOR A FEMALE for this because it's OUR FIRST fMF and want to enjoy it and then maybe move on through the ranks of couples and maybe MFM but the Males have just about killed the whole thing and some have been down right assholes by saying why should the husband be able to habe a fmf 3some and be able to fuck who he wants while you just get to fuck him ONLY, that's not right and is not Swinging. It's NONE of his FUCKING BUSINESS who we choose to sleep with and how many times or whatever and when he was told we will pass he got really mad and went off big time and called us (the husband mainly) names and called me a single man whore, where that is none of his FUCKING Business at all and now several messages later the husband and I are reconsidering the whole thing after we were told that swingers were the best and sweetest people to hang snd talk to and be friends with and best people out there to hang out with and talk to and have great time with and great sex with and learn new things amd.learn new things with each other but we have been finding out the 100% opposite and have not found not 1 Female for a fmf for our 1 fmf in over a year but have found about 15 males that are assholes because you won't pick them or talk to them or have anything to do with them, especially sex, and they are 100% totally ruining the whole experience for us.

Is there anything we can do or anything, we are willing to try anything before giving up!! We are both around Oxford/Tupelo/Sardis/Senatobia and she is 53/straight/willing to try things he is 57/straight/and will try anything asked!! We are outgoing and love to meet new people and stuff and try new things, she is shy but if asked and left to think about it, will more then likely do it, he will do anything asked almost instantly and more than once, he's also been "fixed," for around 26 years if that even matters, we are both shaved (he is baby smooth she is shaved/trimmed short or shaved baby smooth with my help. We are a bit overweight but working on it but, it dont get in our way or anything. We do have a few pictures we can post in messages/chats, we do have toys we like to play with (several we each like separately) she is NOT fixed so NO sex with guys right now, maybe later and if so condoms will be used and doubled up for extra protection. If there is anything else yall want to know please ask but be nice about it and we will answer nicely about it. And if you have any information or anything on anything we can do better, PLEASE, tell us so we quit so we will know. Thanks