My Partner and I have identified as polyamorous for 9 years and have improved our language around these ideas tremendously within the past 3 years through lots of reading, conversations, and some experience. We are feeling great together, are in a dedicated long term relationship, and are in a constant state of growth and learning. Feeling good!

We have tried various forms of solo polyam, and have determined that a triad structure feels best for each of us individually, and for our partnership as well.

We haven’t found a mutual partner yet, and are both feeling a bit discouraged about it. The thoughts of “this is to niche, this will never happen” kind of thoughts exist.

Have you been here before? Would love to read your perspective.

Thank you for taking some time to share!