I have no interest in monogamy. I haven't been in a monogamous relationship since I was a teenager and it's integral to my personality. I never plan on being monogamous, and that severely constricts my dating pool. However, every time I lament about it a bit I always hear that "so many people are looking for open relationships nowadays". It seems like the idea that the masses seem to be undoing traditional dating is mostly a phantom though cause even in the big liberal areas I live in I rarely come across people into it.

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I only ever see the same handful of people from online dating apps who say they're interested. I never find people IRL interested despite the claim that people into alt lifestyles are everywhere nowadays. Does anyone else similarly that the idea that non-mon is seemingly everywhere now a little overblown?