I have an FWB that is pretty much a fuck buddy although we do enjoy each other's company and talk a lot when we're together. I think I'd date him if we didn't both have "primary" partners, but I'm not sure.

I've been having womanly problems and sex has been uncomfortable. My LT partner is the one I have no issues talking to when I'm having problems, but since FWB is just an FWB we don't really talk about that stuff.

Last night, I let him know I'd been having discomfort and I needed him to take his time, more foreplay, etc. It was amazing! Although overall the sex was much shorter than usual (under an hour instead of closer to 2), he did an amazing job of getting me ready and making me want him. I didn't cum as much as usual, but I still had some good orgasms, and his was great.

I kinda want to send him a message and tell him he did good, but I don't know what to say... In the past, I've sent him Last night was fun. Looking forward to next time 😉 But this is more Thank you for putting in the effort and being responsive to my needs and not being an ass about it. And that just doesn't sound right...

Ideas for brief messages?