Hello reddit. I have a few questions regarding opening up relationships. First I'll tell you our situation:

We have been dating for about a year, and it's great! Right now we actually don't have the need to opening up, but at the start of our relationship he stablished that nonmonogamy is something he would like to have at some point. I accepted that and, a year later and with better mental health, I think is time to rethink how i feel about this.

I've read The Ethical Slut and also had some experience in the before. Before i met my boyfriend i had a fling with a girl in a Poly relationship (they were both lovely) that i broke off for reason unrelated.

So, here are my questions! -How do you know you are capable of feeling sexual attraction for múltiple people and acting on it? I think feeling sexual attraction por other people is normal but I don't know about the acting part. -Did you open it directly or did you test the waters? If so, how did you do It? -Do you know some resources to find out what type of relationship you want? I know I have a very non monogamous way of viewing muy relationship, but I don't know if is just philosophy or actual life needs.

Thanks for reading