Heya all hope it's going well. My wife and I are in an open marriage and have been for a few years. We are both pansexual and are allowed to play with other folk regardless of gender.

However as a guy I have been having some sever issues finding any play partners be it males or females while she's able to have at least one reoccurring play partner.

I wouldn't say I'm jealous but more of just feeling like I'm left out because I can't seem to find anything. I've tried several apps/websites such as fetlife, tinder, grindr, reddit, and a couple others with very little success.

Does anybody have any advice on how to deal with this? My wife and I have discussed it and she knows how I feel but the struggle is just getting to be too much. Any advice is much appreciated thanks!